(highlight:: The grass is not greener on the other side, casual sex and all that, sounds cool until you actually do it.
Its a false parade, a bandaid used to momentarily fill in the loneliness within but all it will do is leave you more lonely when the hookup is over.
You are letting your lust get to you to the point you are considering throw a great relationship and partner for something so shallow.
Great relationships are a rare thing these days. Be very careful with what you decide to do.)
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(highlight:: This doesn’t sound like growing apart. What your describing are the excuses some people use to rationalize cheating in relationships. Thank you for not doing that. If you guys have stood through the hurdles keep moving forward.
Go to a therapist. The can really help work through this. Couples counseling can also help support your relationship and give it room to stay healthy and grow your bond deeper.
I’ll remind you that relationships take a lot of work and commitment. How many of the “breakup if you have doubts” crowd have long term relationships? How many have hookups that give them no security or actual emotional support? They aren’t terribly happy and want to drag you down.
No one’s abusive, there are no red flags I saw.
If you find yourself obsessing about it then sure, walk away, just remember it’s a choice you will make for yourself and you’ll be the one to face the consequences, not anyone else. Once you walk away you can never get what you had back…)
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