(highlight:: I’m not sure whether you’re on here looking for a piece of advice or just to vent but from your original post and from your replies to other peoples comments you seem extremely bitter, perhaps that bitterness is justified, I don’t know you so won’t assume one way or the other so please don’t take any of this as an attack.
What I can tell you though is even if you have a genuine reason to be bitter it is one of those emotions that subconsciously seeps into virtually every aspect of the way you manifest yourself in reality, in short I would posit that anybody who interacts with you picks up on your anger even if you think you’re hiding it.
Without knowing whatever context you have for your bitterness how are they supposed to react? Strangers are supposed to invest emotionally in trying to help with little to no prospect of a return on that investment? That isn’t fair and it’s not how the game of human interaction is typically played. For people to take interest they need to feel as though there’s a genuine interest in them and that the emotional equilibrium between both people is one conducive to getting along easily at first. It’s only when things are easy at first that people get to know each other and then grow to want to make more and more of an emotional investment in you because they care for each other more.
If you’re serious in your assertion that your mind can’t be changed and you’ll be alone forever then you absolutely will be, and it will be all on you, don’t dare ever blame anyone else for playing a game you wouldn’t get off the bench for.
I however believe that what you aim at determines what you see. Work on yourself to a point where you have an aim, even one you think is small or dumb or whatever it just needs to be a genuine and achievable one, it’ll drive you forward and help with whatever resentments you harbour. As this happens the way you present to the world will change and the way you interact with people will change, this will in turn change the way they interact with you.
It sounds like you’ve got fuck all to lose and everything to gain so why not try?
I genuinely wish the best for you my man!)
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