R/ADHD_partners - How Much of His/Her ADHD Can You Tolerate?
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I deal with almost all her DX ADHD except one: lack of self awareness. Three examples from last week:- She thinks that she shouldn't say sorry when she does something wrong but not on purpose - eg: if it wasn't in bad faith then she shouldn't say sorry - (This one blows my mind)- As a stay at home mom with the kid in school, she blamed me and my kid for missing the summer sales that were available in the last 30 days. (she has a terrible perception of time and time management)- When she loses here temper with our son and I try to provide solutions, she never comes back saying sorry for any for the shouting or thank you for the help.And these could even be normal situations for many families without ADHD. The problem is that when I try to make her realise that of the situation, she is completely ignorant and rejects all responsibility. She never feels sorry and alway rejects any accountability.Isn't lack of self awareness the root of all evil? Without it there's no reset, but only getting worst.
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title: R/ADHD_partners - How Much of His/Her ADHD Can You Tolerate?
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I deal with almost all her DX ADHD except one: lack of self awareness. Three examples from last week:- She thinks that she shouldn't say sorry when she does something wrong but not on purpose - eg: if it wasn't in bad faith then she shouldn't say sorry - (This one blows my mind)- As a stay at home mom with the kid in school, she blamed me and my kid for missing the summer sales that were available in the last 30 days. (she has a terrible perception of time and time management)- When she loses here temper with our son and I try to provide solutions, she never comes back saying sorry for any for the shouting or thank you for the help.And these could even be normal situations for many families without ADHD. The problem is that when I try to make her realise that of the situation, she is completely ignorant and rejects all responsibility. She never feels sorry and alway rejects any accountability.Isn't lack of self awareness the root of all evil? Without it there's no reset, but only getting worst.
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