R/Relationships - Comment by U/FlightyTwilighty on ”I [33 M] Can't Figure Out Whether to Marry My Girlfriend [31 F] of Four Years”
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I read a post on a situation and saw a comment like this that I think really helps. Answer all the questions then make a decision.Do I really, really, deep down want to spend every day of the rest of my life with this particular person.Do I trust this person 100% with my secrets, my finances, my life.Can I talk about absolutely anything with this person and how do they react?What do I really not like about this person, what could I change if I really wanted too?Do we share the same ideas on what we see in the future?Do we both want kids?When I have spent a long period of time with this person and they drive away, do I want to chase after their car and jump in the passenger seat OR am I glad to now finally have time on my own to be "myself"?What is this person like when we disagree on things?Has this person ever abused me (verbally, emotionally, physically) or someone I care about?How does this person treat the waiter / waitress when we go to a restaurant?How often do we have sex and is sex really enjoyable?What happens after sex? Do we both head for the shower or do we still hug when everything is wet and uncomfortable?How do I get along with this persons family? Does this person get along with my family? If not, why?Does this person tell me if something is bothering them or do they let it bottle up?Can I tell this person if something is wrong without feeling anxious or do I let it bottle up?If this person was in a car accident tomorrow and was confined to a wheelchair for the rest of their life would that change anything about the way I thought of them?How much money do I have? How much money does this person have?Can I count on this person to always be there for me and to support me in everything that I do?Am I personally ready for marriage? Is there anything that I haven't yet done that I really want to do that I can't do with this person in my life permanently?Does this person accept me despite all of my insecurities?
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Do you feel like "She gets me?"Do you feel like this is a person who you'd really miss if you left?Do you feel like she's your best friend?Honestly, you don't seem all that enthusiastic about her. Were you ever?
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title: R/Relationships - Comment by U/FlightyTwilighty on ”I [33 M] Can't Figure Out Whether to Marry My Girlfriend [31 F] of Four Years”
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I read a post on a situation and saw a comment like this that I think really helps. Answer all the questions then make a decision.Do I really, really, deep down want to spend every day of the rest of my life with this particular person.Do I trust this person 100% with my secrets, my finances, my life.Can I talk about absolutely anything with this person and how do they react?What do I really not like about this person, what could I change if I really wanted too?Do we share the same ideas on what we see in the future?Do we both want kids?When I have spent a long period of time with this person and they drive away, do I want to chase after their car and jump in the passenger seat OR am I glad to now finally have time on my own to be "myself"?What is this person like when we disagree on things?Has this person ever abused me (verbally, emotionally, physically) or someone I care about?How does this person treat the waiter / waitress when we go to a restaurant?How often do we have sex and is sex really enjoyable?What happens after sex? Do we both head for the shower or do we still hug when everything is wet and uncomfortable?How do I get along with this persons family? Does this person get along with my family? If not, why?Does this person tell me if something is bothering them or do they let it bottle up?Can I tell this person if something is wrong without feeling anxious or do I let it bottle up?If this person was in a car accident tomorrow and was confined to a wheelchair for the rest of their life would that change anything about the way I thought of them?How much money do I have? How much money does this person have?Can I count on this person to always be there for me and to support me in everything that I do?Am I personally ready for marriage? Is there anything that I haven't yet done that I really want to do that I can't do with this person in my life permanently?Does this person accept me despite all of my insecurities?
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Do you feel like "She gets me?"Do you feel like this is a person who you'd really miss if you left?Do you feel like she's your best friend?Honestly, you don't seem all that enthusiastic about her. Were you ever?
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