Woman coming in peace on this thread - I actually had a revelation last night which might help you all. I am the high libido partner in my current relationship. The difference between this relationship and EVERY OTHER RELATIONSHIP I HAVE BEEN IN, is that my current partner makes it a priority to touch me all the time. (Touch is definitely his love language.) Even though sometimes we go a while without sex, I haven't really missed it, because I am always feeling physical affection even if it's not intercourse.So for all the dudes out there struggling right now, maybe start small with just prioritizing touch over the actual act. You can ask for like a chest rub, or an arm massage, or a scalp massage, or rubbing of legs... or anything like that - and the best part is, these can be done in front of the kid. :) (In fact, some might argue that being physically affectionate in front of your kid would set some healthy examples.)I think an important aspect to this is also that I know these touches don't always lead to sex, so maybe if you have a nervous (or hurt) partner, go ahead and set that expectation in advance. You just want more touch which is sexy, not necessarily more sex time.:)
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Woman coming in peace on this thread - I actually had a revelation last night which might help you all. I am the high libido partner in my current relationship. The difference between this relationship and EVERY OTHER RELATIONSHIP I HAVE BEEN IN, is that my current partner makes it a priority to touch me all the time. (Touch is definitely his love language.) Even though sometimes we go a while without sex, I haven't really missed it, because I am always feeling physical affection even if it's not intercourse.So for all the dudes out there struggling right now, maybe start small with just prioritizing touch over the actual act. You can ask for like a chest rub, or an arm massage, or a scalp massage, or rubbing of legs... or anything like that - and the best part is, these can be done in front of the kid. :) (In fact, some might argue that being physically affectionate in front of your kid would set some healthy examples.)I think an important aspect to this is also that I know these touches don't always lead to sex, so maybe if you have a nervous (or hurt) partner, go ahead and set that expectation in advance. You just want more touch which is sexy, not necessarily more sex time.:)
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